Expectations Are in the Air

Valentine's Day. Somehow this supposed "most romantic day in the year" has never fully met my expectations. As a kid, Valentine's Day was all about the candy - spending the day eating way too much chocolate was about my only expectation. As I grew older, however, I daydreamed in the way young girls do about a special someone with whom I could spend the day floating on pink fluffy clouds. As I grew a little older, the day came with a sense of dread, and I'll admit on more than one occasion I broke things off with someone merely because Valentine's Day was looming in the future and I didn't want to have to go through such an experience with someone who evidently didn't meet all my expectations. Finally, I found my true love, and I imagine that we had a few traditional Valentine's Day dates although nothing really spectacular stands out. Instead, what I remember is the date that ended in tragedy, well at least for my expectations. We had a free night and a babysitter, which in and of itself is a great thing. I'm pretty sure I spent a large part of the day dwelling on what a perfect night we were going to have and wondering what wonderful plans my creative and loving husband had inevitably come up with. The night started off with dinner, so far so good. After that, I don't remember too many of the details, but we basically ended up aimlessly killing time browsing the aisles of Target. Honestly, any other night that would have been fine. I like any kind of shopping, even if it is Target. I like spending one-on-one time with my husband, and we always have a great time no matter what we are doing. However, it was Valentine's Day - there are expectations to be met here! Let's just say, unfortunately for my oblivious husband,  that I harbored some bitter feelings for quite a while. Eventually, I came to my senses and the following thoughts have altered my Valentine's Day expectations:

1. I love my husband.
2. My husband loves me.
3. Unexpected romantic gestures and dates throughout the year mean so much more than obligated scheduled ones.
4. Romantic things are sometimes a lot more practical than I used to think. Flowers are nice, but having the laundry washed, folded, and put away for me...Wow! 
5. For me, Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to take time to focus on our love together as a family and not just Andy and I as a couple.

So, last year began our new tradition of having family date nights on Valentine's Day and spending time together focusing on the love that we all have for each other. Fortunately for us, now I can say that LOVE Is in the Air at our house on Valentine's Day!

Just Because...

...they're so sweet!

Another Step Closer

We have completed our homestudy! This included a lot of paperwork, 12 completed hours of international adoption education, and four visits (one introductory visit, one where we were interviewed together, one where we were both interviewed individually, and one where she toured our home). Our next step is to complete and submit our dossier. We're definitely getting tired of all the paperwork, but this is our last step before we get our referral! After that it is just travel to meet him, come home and wait some more while the adoption is finalized in the Bulgarian courts, and then go back to bring him home! Thank you all for your prayers and your support! I can't wait to meet our little boy!

Thanks to our little photographer, Emma Lee,

for snapping a picture of us with our social worker.

Good Old-Fashioned Fun

Remember when it wasn't a requirement for each toy to have batteries, recharge, or be plugged in? Remember when it was not necessary for every toy to light up, sing, talk, or involve something with a screen? Gosh, how old-fashioned! How did we ever have any fun or develop into the geniuses we are today? Haha! As much as I love the girls great "modern" toys that they have (I'm pretty sure I have just as much fun with them as they do), at times I find myself wishing that they had some fun, QUIET toys to play with (and wearing headphones doesn't count!) Anyway, back around Christmas, I was remembering how much fun I had with sewing cards as a kid, but I couldn't find them ANYWHERE! My searches online, instead, led me to some sites explaining how easy they are to make (why didn't I think of that in the first place?!) That idea has stayed in the back of my mind, and I finally got around to making them! Here's the finished product:

And look! Happily focused, quiet girls! (I have to admit that this creates daydreams in my head of us all working on sewing projects together...) ; )

Snow Fun: Emma Lee

Snow Fun: Kerri

PJ Sunday

It's a freezing cold, snow-filled Sunday. In contrast to our usual busy, rushing around Sunday, this morning we enjoyed sleeping in, eating a big breakfast, and then had our own little worship time - in our pj's of course!
We sang some worship songs

while Andy played the "k-tar,"

had a sweet prayer time led by Emma Lee,

and learned about putting on the armor of God.

 The girls had to finish up our time with a puppet show "just like Ms. Shawna and Ms. Jessica."

Photo and video editing at www.OneTrueMedia.com

(Kerri's "pretend voice" that she uses for all her barbies, dolls, stuffed animals, etc is very high-pitched. It was cracking me up to listen to her try to sing using that voice.)


I love our church and what we do there, but it was nice to snuggle up and have some family worship time today.